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Hi Louise, this is so beautiful and very wise.. I love that your son was able to support you and has obviously absorbed some wonderful empathy and communication skills from his fabulous mum. Nice one! 👍🥰

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How utterly gorgeous, and reflective of your parenting, that your eldest cared for you at a low time x

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Snacks. Boys are all about the snacks. Give them snacks and they will come.

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Good advice. I cant seem to keep enough snacks in the house.

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It’s notable how long food lasts now that it’s just me and my husband. Although we are stocking up in advance of the Christmas invasion.

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it's when they can support you with your wobbles that you know you've done a good job! I was upset about something recently and Jake gave me a hug, told me that I had done my best and that if other people couldn't see that, that was their problem not mine and that I was a great person - bless him! Snacks, snacks... I bought about 16 bananas yesterday and he ate about 8 of them in just over 24 hours...he's in his homemade smoothie era!

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Oh my goodness, that’s so kind. I remember hearing my younger son checking in with a friend who was struggling during the Covid lockdown and thinking how awesome his generation are. They really pull together to support each other and I genuinely think the future is in good hands.

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The part where your son offers you advice you have shared before brought tears—Beautiful 😌

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Thank you so much, it was a really special moment

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I can imagine 😊

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Number 3 is one I've learned the hard way. Thank you.

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Absolutely, I think we only learn these things by going through them ourselves.

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To be honest I'm 33 and snacks still help!

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Oh absolutely, I’m known for always having snacks about my person.

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My sons are just under two years apart and my older son is a high school senior. We are looking at universities and this time has been especially hard on me! I genuinely enjoy my sons and have had fun during their teenage years! Thank you for sharing what you have learned and I wholeheartedly agree about the snacks! Also encourages their friends to come over, which I also enjoy 😉

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